Tomorrow marks 3 years with my boyfriend Jack.
It has been a wonderful 3 years and I have learnt so much about myself and the person I am/was and want to be.
Jack is one of the kindest, considerate people you will ever meet. He has a super positive attitude and always puts 100% in to everything he does. In this past 3 years, he has helped me to see things in many different perspectives, he has encouraged me to grow and become the person I want to be. He has supported every decision I have made and he is honestly the best friend anyone could ever ask for. He has an incredible sense of humour and has the ability to turn any dull, sad or stressful situation into a happy one. Jack knows me so well and puts up with all 75 of my personalities, mood swings and all levels of sometimes unnecessary sass. He is extremely thoughtful and I am incredibly lucky to be able to wake up to him every day.
I always say that Jack is the exception to the rule, my rule. Prior to jack I wasn’t interested in boys at all. I identified as gay and had recently come out of a long term relationship with my girlfriend.
However, I fell in love with Jack and the person he is and his mind, his laugh and the way he puts everyone on the planet first before himself.
These 3 years have been an eye opener for me, for a long time I was extremely worried about what people would say or think. People told me I was clearly bisexual if I’d been with girls and now I’m with a boy. Or sometimes I’d be called straight, because I am in a heterosexual relationship. It didn’t matter that i’m not attracted to men, that it’s just one man, that if that one man wasn’t here, it would probably be a woman. People would tell me what I was, because people think they have the right to tell you what you are and put you in a box, and I was silly enough to let them and let it affect me and my confidence and the person I am.
I’m at the point where is doesn’t matter what they say, or anyone’s opinion on the matter. The way I see it, I fell in love with a man, he’s amazing, I’m happy and we love each other.
Love is Love. ❤
Billie-Paige ✨ 💖